DeAnna Pappas Jesse Csincsak Engaged,Bachelorette Winner
By Kelly on Jul 1, 2008 in The Bachelor | | |
DeAnna And Jesse Engaged.DeAnna Pappas will pick Jesse Csincsak as the winner of The Bachelorette 4’s finale. DeAnna and Jesse are now engaged to be married.It is not a surprise that Deanna chose Jesse,because of what she recently said about him:
“I need Jesse to be like my boyfriend today.”
I don’t see them lasting long.
Julia | Jul 1, 2008 | Reply
I’m so excited for DeAnna and Jesse. I hope they do end up together. He seems like the perfect ying to her yang. It makes perfect sense if they end up together because he gives her the edge/wild side she seems to desire in a mate; but also he has the wherewithall to realize what he needs to bring to the table in a relationship that is comprised of both giving and taking by both people. They’ll be happy if they can maintain their individual interests, yet meld into a partnership based on love, laughter and also grasp what their lives have to offer. Plus! Trista and Ryan are just down the road in Vail and can be a great source of wisdom, support and experience for DeAnna and Jesse as they navigate their new lives together under the somewhat public eye, initiallly.
Ashley | Jul 1, 2008 | Reply
How do you know this???
jlbalmer | Jul 1, 2008 | Reply
Thanks for ruining the whole thing by people like you posting this shit all over the internet!!! If it is true……
Skeptical | Jul 1, 2008 | Reply
How do you know this is true? And when she said “I need Jesse to be like my boyfriend today” she meant that she needed him to be more than just a friend so she could figure out if they had a future.
I don’t trust this article.
A.J | Jul 1, 2008 | Reply
It will still be fun to watch,next week.
You know that you love spoilers.
LG | Jul 1, 2008 | Reply
This reminds me of the rumor about Trista & Charlie seen hanging out together before the finale aired, which led many people to believe she chose him instead of Ryan. We all know that turned out to be false.
If DeAnna does choose Jesse, then the best man won - Jason!
natty | Jul 1, 2008 | Reply
I think it’s jesse because after watching for several season the loser always goes first and it does appear that Jason goes first…I think though if she picks Jesse she isn’t as serious about finding a soul mate as she has said….Jesse has so many ? marks about his future …How can you have kids right away with someone who isn’t secure in their future??
No WAY! | Jul 1, 2008 | Reply
I have watched this show from B1 and sleuthed my way through. There is NO WAY I will believe this. I think this is an evil ploy by Fleiss and his evil, manipulative, rude, and brainwashing producers.
carolinascout | Jul 1, 2008 | Reply
Skeptical asked when did she say “I need Jesse to be like my boyfriend today” She said that on their fantasy date, when she was meeting him on the beach to go horseback riding.
I hope this is true! I have been pulling for him!
eve | Jul 1, 2008 | Reply
He is so freaking ugly. I hope it isnt so.
Hope So | Jul 1, 2008 | Reply
I hope this is true. I love Jesse!
chica1633 | Jul 1, 2008 | Reply
Thats not true about the loser going first. Remember The Bachelor with Jesse Palmer? The winner, Jessica B., went first and she had to hang out while he told Tara he did not pick her. Usually the loser goes first but not always. I believe that she will pick Jason because she has always has feelings for him and everything would just fall into place with him…they already act like a couple. I think Jesse is different and she likes that about him, but I dont think he would be a good husband for her. Where are is the info on her picking Jesse coming from?? I read somewhere else that she picks Jason and supposedly that person knew her…If anyone knows the truth..post it and tell us where you got your information
DEJOY123 | Jul 1, 2008 | Reply
I DO NOT BELIEVE THIS. SHE WILL PICK JASON!! WE WILL HAVE TO WAIT AND SEE!
LG | Jul 1, 2008 | Reply
The only reason Jessica B. arrived first was because Tara got sick and had to pull over to the side of the road. That delayed her arrival which prompted Jessica B. to be the first one out of the limo. I thought it was extremely tacky that she watched while Jessie P. ‘dumped’ Tara.
I think this news about Jesse & DeAnna is a ploy to surprise us when DeAnna ends up chooing Jason. I just hope for Jason & Ty’s sake she chooses Jesse. She isn’t good enough for Jason (or Jeremy)!
SuzieQ | Jul 2, 2008 | Reply
Does it really look like “opinion” is being posted here? Heck no… looks like a fact is being reported. The ABC board has had many rumors that she picks Jesse for a long time. This is true poeple, so you have an early start getting used to the idea! CONGRATS TO DEANNA AND JESSE
Amanda | Jul 2, 2008 | Reply
ya right i DONT NOT belive in any of this CRAP:)
i will watch it…..
how do you get this information what are you like in the show
…………….NOPE………………..
Simba | Jul 2, 2008 | Reply
If she did in fact choose Jesse over Jason, she subconsciously ended this show the same as the one with Brad. A loser.
JENN | Jul 2, 2008 | Reply
SHE SHOULD OF NEVER KEPT JASON ALONG IF SHE WASNT GOING TO CHOOSE HIM IN THE END SO HE COULD BE HOME WITH HIS SON!!!!!
Rebecca | Jul 2, 2008 | Reply
She will not pick Jesse, Jason is the winner. Jason is ready for marriage more than anyone eles, he has been there. Jesse is still a little doubtful about marriage. He still wants to have fun. When the fun is over, he will not be so crazy about Deanna anymore and like any other Bacholerette/Bachelor shows, it ends up like dust. Except for Krista Ryan of course.
Shlamoganbigana | Jul 2, 2008 | Reply
Jessie and DeAnna are cute together, but Jason is hotter, much better and I love him so if DeAnna doesnt choose him them she is a real ass because she really loves him and he loves her, so if she doesnt know that then she can go to hell!!
Peggy | Jul 2, 2008 | Reply
If she does choose Jesse maybe she can talk him into getting a nose job.
Shelly | Jul 2, 2008 | Reply
Deanna is going to pick Jason. Did you listen to EVERYTHING that Deanna has said, and EVERYTHING that Jesse said on their date in the Bahamas? She wants someone ready for committment, marriage, and family. Jesse doesn’t even know what he’s going to do for a job. I am still going for Jason — ALL THE WAY!! He is the total package…..
allison | Jul 2, 2008 | Reply
If she does not pick Jason….she is CRAZY…..and if that is the case….i’ll have him…..oh my….I think I have fallen in love with him! …
jess | Jul 2, 2008 | Reply
she’s insane if she doesn’t pick jason. of course i’ll take jason if she does boot him. he was my pick since day 1!!
Kathy | Jul 2, 2008 | Reply
I would want to keep Jeremy, Jason and yes, that cutie patootie; earnest, sincere and sweet, Jesse, forever. I don’t think I could choose between them. I’d keep Graham too. One for each season. Woo hoo!
Sandra | Jul 2, 2008 | Reply
Funny, but there are rumours that she chose Jason. I hope it’s true.
Jess | Jul 3, 2008 | Reply
Wow, as we get to the end of the season I really see how difficult it is. Usually I have a favourite and am really upset if things don’t turn out how I hoped… but this season I feel so different! They are both so great in their own way! Personally I prefer Jesse but maybe Jason will be better for her. We don’t all have the same taste. How could she decide???
jack | Jul 3, 2008 | Reply
If she picks Jesse, they will break up within a year. He is still a toy r us kid. Personally I like Jason from the day he stepped out of the limo. I think she will pick Jason, not accept his proposal but continue to date him, later she will take the ring(as we heard already, she is engaged). She will also give him and ty the last rose.
Lisa M | Jul 3, 2008 | Reply
I like both Jason and Jesse and rewatched the previews for next week about 8 times to see if I could tell which one she chose. I can’t. I’ve seen rumors all over the web going both ways so we won’t know until we see it.
One thing is for sure, no matter who DeAnna chooses, I’ll be heartbroken for the other guy. They both seem like great guys. Different, but great guys in their own way.
Lee Ann | Jul 3, 2008 | Reply
I looked up her interview with ABC known as her “conference call” and if you read it she talks about Jason in the past tense but Jesse in the present…so I think from that call and what she mentioned about them both, she obviously chose Jesse. I myself was really hoping it was Jason…I am just a little upset right now after reading that!!!!
Lee Ann | Jul 3, 2008 | Reply
Here it is if anyone is interested….everything in quotes is what DeAnna said….
DeAnna Pappas said she loves surprises — especially ones that don’t end with her receiving a rejection.”This is a good surprise,” Pappas told Reality TV World during a Wednesday conference call about The Bachelorette’s pre-taped fourth-season finale, which will air next Monday night at 8PM ET/PT and end with her “very happy, in love and engaged.”
“With [The Bachelor eleventh-season star Brad Womack], I kept it a secret because I wanted to know if someone could figure out what in the world happened. I didn’t want anyone to know the outcome of the show because I didn’t understand. I went through a break-up by myself, and I didn’t understand it. Now this is a happy ending, and it’s a good surprise. I don’t want anyone to know because I want everyone to watch it. When you see the final episode it’s so good — you’re going to laugh and you’re going to cry. It’s just a beautiful episode.”
Pappas said it’s been “almost three months” since The Bachelorette’s fourth-season finale filmed and she chose between Jason Mesnick, a 31-year-old account executive from Kirkland, WA, and Jesse Csincsak, a 25-year-old professional snowboarder from Breckenridge, CO.
“It was never, ever an easy thing for me to say goodbye to anyone. Even so, I think the final Rose Ceremony was harder than anything else in the whole world,” she told reporters during the conference call.
“How are you supposed to look at someone and tell them that you care about them so much but you can’t choose them because you care about the other guy more? That definitely does not make you feel good about yourself. I can promise you that.”
Pappas described Mesnick and Csincsak as “two totally different people,” and she said she’s also a “different person when I’m with each one of them.”
With Mesnick, Pappas said she “never, ever had to wonder if he was a good father” because of his 3-year-old son Ty — whom she met during his hometown visit.
“He has Ty, and that’s one of the best things in his life. If you don’t fall in love with that child, than there’s something wrong with you,” Pappas told Reality TV World.
“He’s a wonderful, wonderful man and has a beautiful outlook on life and love — especially considering some of the things he’s been through in his lifetime. He’s very generous, very caring, and he would always listen to me. If anything was ever bothering me he would always say, ‘Are you okay? Do you want to talk about it?’ He was just always there for me and I knew I could depend on him.”
Mesnick waited a few weeks into the competition before he revealed to Pappas that he was a single father — a decision he initially fretted over. However she said she’s happy that’s the course he decided to take.
“I’m definitely glad that he waited until we had time to talk about it. It’s not like, ‘Hey, I have a dog.’ He has a child that’s important to him — the most important thing in his life,” she told Reality TV World. “I’m glad he waited it was until it was just me and him and we could talk in detail about what is important to him.”
In addition, Pappas said she wasn’t bothered that Mesnick was a single father — even if it meant she could simultaneously become a wife AND mother if he’s her selected suitor.
“I want to be a mom someday, I want to have children of my own,” she told Reality TV World. “I knew my life would change, and I wanted to make sure that I was ready for that because when you bring someone’s child into that, you’re not just dealing with someone else’s heart. Now you’re dealing with two people’s hearts. I wanted to make sure I was ready for that, but it was never a determining factor.”
As for Csincsak, he was somebody who immediately stood-out from Pappas’ other suitors and received one of her first-impression roses during the fourth-season’s premiere.
“Jesse’s that crazy, snowboarding, long-haired kid on night one. I was wide-eyed when he got out of the limo because he was wearing that crazy jacket,” she told Reality TV World. “But once you get past everything crazy, he’s actually a wonderful human being. He has a big heart, he’s caring, he comes from a great family. He’s that person that’s always going to make me laugh, and he puts me first.”
However it took Csincsak longer than most of the other suitors to have a romantic connection with Pappas, but she claims that “never really” deterred her from constantly keeping him in the running for her heart. Her persistence paid off, as the two finally got romantic during his hometown date.
“I would say it was probably [during his hometown visit] when I really felt that romantic connection with him,” she told Reality TV World. “I remember in the car ride home after snowboarding in the mountains and there was no cameras around and we were sitting in the car on the way to meet his parents, and I just sat there and remember thinking, ‘Wow, I cannot live without this person in my life.’ That was the first time that I really felt that romantic connection with Jesse.”
While viewers have already gotten to see Pappas visit both Mesnick and Csincsak’s hometown and meet their respective families, now they’ll get to see both of them travel to her Georgian hometown during Monday night’s finale.
However there’s a twist, because instead of Mesnick and Csincsak making separate visits to the Pappas residence, they’ll do so together.
“It’s actually really funny. It’ll definitely be very entertaining for everyone to watch… I knew it was going to happen but you can’t prepare yourself for something like this,” she told reporters during the conference call.
Despite the oddness of the situation, Pappas said both men handled it very well.
“They have been friends through the entire show and they will be friends for life. They totally handled it like mature adults,” she said. “Obviously it’s awkward. We’re in a three-way love triangle. Both of these guys are falling for me and I’m falling for them. It’s strange. I’m sitting in my house in between both of them. Just wait until you see.”
Entertainment aside, Pappas said the guys visiting her family was important to her.
“As everyone knows, my family is the most important part of my life. Sometimes I think that they know me better than I know myself,” she explained. “So I definitely wanted them to meet the Final 2 guys and hopefully help me out with the final decision that I was going to have to make. So I think the guys were more comfortable in that situation than I was.”
Since Pappas is so close to her kin, she told reporters she plans on keeping her Atlanta home in spite of both of her final two suitors living no where near there.
“We’re talking about it,” Pappas told reporters when asked about where she’ll live with her chosen bachelor. “I’m definitely going to keep my house in Atlanta because I love Atlanta. I grew up there and that’s where I’m from. It depends. We’ll discuss that a little more in detail next week.”
Next week will be the first time Pappas and her selected suitor can be seen in public together, however that hasn’t hindered them from several secret rendezvous while the show was airing.
“ABC is behind me 100%, and they’ve been really, really good to me,” she told reporters. “I get to speak to him everyday, whenever I want. We talk to each other a lot. We get to see each other quite a bit, but nobody’s allowed to see us. We definitely haven’t been to dinner yet.”
Pappas reiterated that “dinner in public” is one of her top priorities once the finale airs and added no wedding date has been set.
“We’re definitely taking it day-by-day,” she told Reality TV World when asked about wedding plans.
Should Pappas actually walk down the aisle with her selected suitor, she’d be following in the footsteps of The Bachelorette first-season star Trista Rehn — who got engaged to and married Ryan Sutter.
Ten months later, ABC aired a three episode series that detailed the events leading up to their December 2003 wedding ceremony and over 17 million viewers watched the couple exchange vows on Trista & Ryan’s Wedding finale broadcast.
Pappas said televised nuptials could also be in her own future.
“We haven’t put a lot of thought into it, but we both know we have a lot of fans behind us. There’s a lot of people that have followed me since my season with Brad, and I know that there’s a lot of followers and supporters that would like to see that happy ending,” she told reporters. “I can’t say I put a lot of thought into it, but I’m not really opposed to letting those fans into that part of my life.”
While the wedding isn’t even its planning stage, Pappas had one word to describe it: big.
“It’s going to be big. I have a huge family, there’s no way I could cut down my list. We’ve already thought about it, and it’s just ridiculous,” she told reporters. “It’s going to be a big wedding and I’m kind of a traditional kind of girl. I want lots of white.”
In addition, Pappas told reporters she wants her wedding dress to be “simple.”
“I want him to still look at me that day and know that he’s still marrying me — not some dolled up girl in this big fru-fru dress,” she said.
As Pappas prepares for her family members, friends and millions of viewers to watch her choose between Mesnick and Csincsak, she said she still has a memento from the choice.
“I still have the piece of paper where I was doing my pros and cons because it was never an easy decision,” she said. “It was always a very, very hard decision for me.”
It’s been since December that Pappas said she last talked to Womack. While he might have confusingly broken her heart — twice — Pappas reiterated her story will have a happy ending this time around, even for Womack.
“Everything happens for a reason,” she said. “He’s a good person, and I’m sure he’s ready to live down The Bachelor experience. Poor Brad, everybody’s had to hear about him all season.”
OhioNative | Jul 3, 2008 | Reply
I don’t see it lasting and Jesse is my 3rd cousin. Shows like this are not what builds relationships. Meeting a person and getting to know them without the reality show background do.
LG | Jul 3, 2008 | Reply
I never understood why ABC picked DeAnna to be the Bachelorette. I’ve always thought she was self-centered, rude and insincere. Her outbursts on the show and behavior on The Men Tell All have shown this. She needs to be the center of attention and pursued in order for her to be happy. I believe she feels a strong attraction to Graham and it continues to irk her that he doesn’t feel the same way. I’m not sure why she was still mad at him when she said she’s “happy, in love and engaged.”
I don’t think her final choice was based on true love. I think she wanted her “fairy tale ending” no matter what. Up until two weeks before the finale, Graham was the only one she was falling in love with. That tells me how insincere she really is in her final choice.
I don’t think it matters whom she chooses. Both Jesse & Jason will end up hurt in the long run and they will also end up better off.
butter | Jul 4, 2008 | Reply
i agree, i fell in love with jason tooo. oh how i love him. he was my pick from day one.
Marley | Jul 4, 2008 | Reply
I read the interview above elsewhere and I think she chose Jesse. In the article when she talks about her BIG wedding she says it’s “ridiculous”. THAT is a Jesse word. He used it all the time. A ying to her yang as mentioned by another blogger stated in perfect. He can be strong but laid back early and then strengthens while Deanna comes on strong and softens. Maybe they will compliment each other. Well, all I can say is that I met my husband and we were married in 8 weeks and we’ve been married 19 years. — And they said it wouldn’t last!!!
Alyssa | Jul 6, 2008 | Reply
OMFG IF THIS IS TRUE IM SO FREAKEN HAPPY I HOPED JESSE WOULD WIN FROM DAY ONE WHEN HE WORE THAT FUNKY JACKET:)
OMFG CANT WAIT TO SEE HER PICK HIM IF THIS IS TRUEE I HOPE IT IS…
PatM | Jul 6, 2008 | Reply
Yeah, Jesse is perfect. The man is still a kid with no job and he’s 26 yrs old. Give me a break!
PatM | Jul 6, 2008 | Reply
I agree with an earlier poster. If she picks Jesse, she isn’t sincere about finding a husband, it was all just a stunt (as many of these shows are).
If she picks Jesse, Jason will have his pick of women. He is sweet and HOT!
Ashley | Jul 6, 2008 | Reply
UGH.
connie | Jul 6, 2008 | Reply
and a decent haircut,with SHAMPOO added! He is ugly and greasy looking,and is still a kid with no real employment! He was the worst one from the beginning. I can’t stand Jesse!
connie | Jul 6, 2008 | Reply
You are freakin sick!He is the ugliest one on the entire show!Big nose,long greasy hair,and no real job,you are as bad as he is!!!!!!
lnglgs08 | Jul 6, 2008 | Reply
I agree with you Jenn!
Vanessa | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
She keeps saying it’s a “surprise” and i will definitely be surprised if she chooses Jesse… if it does end up being true i think it will have something to do with her feeling intimidated by Jason… we all watched her hometown visit with Jeremy when he showed her his bar exam notes on the wall she looked really uncomfortable and then the bloopers from the men tell all showed she’s not the sharpest knife in the kitchen… i think Jesse makes her feel more confident cause he’s an average Joe just like she’s an average Jane… Jason on the other hand is a well spoken professional and she feels insecure in the sense that she doesn’t measure up and feels he’ll dump her where she knows Jesse will worship her cause he’s not very cute and doesn’t even have a real job… I hope Jason wins and dumps her in a month!!! I was really rooting for her but she’s proven to be a real fake bitch and she gets on my nerves now!!!
Debbie | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
Jesse is no slacker!! He may have a crazy side and a laid back attitude, but he is one smart cookie. He has businesses, real estate, snowboard related products and a charity organization. He has plenty of “employment” that gives him lots of time to be able to spend with DeAnna. He isn’t your classic hunk but he has tons of personality and lots to offer a special woman. He is “ridiculous” in a wonderful way!!!
mary | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
Can’t you get past someone’s looks? The guy did’t jump on her like a piece of meat and took his time to develope a relationship. She is a strong woman who knows what she wants and went out and got it. Jesse has not one home but homes, is a pro snow boarder with companys backing him, has been on M/TV and I’m sure will be able to find a good job when he wants one in the sports field. He also helps under pridviliged kids “big heart” I fell in love with him. I would take him any day of the week!!!!!!.
not to sure | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
i sure hope it is jason, but for some strange reason i think it is gonna be jesse. its whatever makes her happy i guess. they both seem to be great guys. but i do think jesse is more of a best friend type. i wonder what goes on in the fantasy dates? lol
MsMolcajete | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
Surprised to see Jesse lasted this long. Surprised she even picked him to begin with. Seems I’ve been surprised all along with this one. So, if my theory is correct, I’ll continue to be surprised and she’ll pick Jesse. Jesse is a world class ranked snowboarder and therefore must be heavily endorsed. Must also make good $ when coaching. I believe I read somewhere that he is a former electrician from Ohio, and he’s not new to T.V. He’s been on Made the MTV realty show. He was the coach for Tara, Season 8, Episode 19 in February when Tara wanted to be turned into a snowboarder. If DeAnna chooses Jesse, there will be no more “crazy” jackets for him, I’m sure. This chick does not strike me as your typical laid back Southern lady. Personally, greasy hair and all, Jesse is way better than her. She should have hooked up with Graham. They would have made a great pair! LOL
No Facts | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
She has chosen someone with the intitial “J”. I know, a complete surprise. Every time it comes down to the end of these shows, people leak so many un-truths. You can’t believe any of these postings as it’s a 50/50 guess. We can all read into what she has said and what someone close says so it must be fact. It’s not. These are all just guesses and just wait until tonight. It is fun to read all the guesses though.
They are both nice guys. She is a little outspoken and emotional; however, there isn’t anything wrong with that. Why does everyone always have to pick on a woman when they have an emotional moment? The show is about her so it is focused on her. That is why she has to be center cause she is! If you all are so perfect, go on the show and let everyone judge you too.
Graham was a terrible choice and she is smart for letting him go. He is insecure and not ready for a committment.
Just watch the show and hope for the best match no matter who it is. Oh, and more bachelor/bachelorette couples beside Tristan and Ryan are still together.
P.S. Jason’s hot
Jennifer | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
Jesse is too good for Deanna. She is not a nice person. It will be easier for her to hurt Jesse than it will be for her to hurt a guy with a kid down the road. She is manufactured. Run Jesse run. You can do sooo much better.
pissed off | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
ahhh omg is deanna retarded!?!?!? jason was def the better man for her. jesse is so stupid. he is a bum and obv isnt as in love with deanna as jason is. this is the worst season finale ever of the bachelor/bachelorette series!!!
jesse and deanna should break up and jason should be with deanna. deanna will not be happy with jesse. he is not right for her.
ahhh im soo mad at her for doing this!
ya know what? ill marry jason. hes cute and wayyyyy better than jesse.
Nichole | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
JESSE should not have won. Jason should have one. Jason is mature and ready to settle down unlike Jesse who is immature. The important thing is and the whole purpose is to find love and to her she did with Jesse.
charbie | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
she is self-centered and will not be able to deal with his snowboarding schedule and lifestyle…she will become even more possessive and demanding…he’s 26 and is used to hanging out…he won’t be able to tolerate her outside of this fantasy world created by this show…what happens when reality sets in?
shit | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
omg.. she fucked up. jason wouldve been way
better. jesse doesnt seem sure at all, he was a nervous wreck and he’ll always be that way. she done fucked up real good.
Jennifer | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
I wouldn’t go that far! Jason is okay. If you are going for looks then she should have never gotten rid of Graham. Even he said she nagged him and she wasn’t his type anyway. So, YES she is a retard. Jesse may not be the best looking but he has the nest personality which makes him better looking. I feel bad that he has to deal with her. Maybe he will dump her. That would be great.
Stormi | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
Both men were awesome in their own way. My heart was broken regardless of who she chose. That said, I’m with those who do not believe she and Jessie will last. In the meantime, Jason, I would give you permission to marry my daughter yesterday! <3
Suz | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
I don’t think it will last with Jesse. Deanna wanted someone to keep her excited. She wanted a high school relationship. If that is what she wants, then Jeremy and Jason are better off. I think either Jeremy or Jason should be the next bachelor. Why in the heck did she lead Jason on and keep him from being with his kid? If Jesse and Deanna get married on tv it should be boycotted. It will never last.
Vanessa | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
she’s super stupid!!! i’m in L.A and read the spoiler and now i’m not even going to watch… she’s an idiot… might as well have ended up with brad… i’ll take Jason anyday!!! this just proves nice guys finish last… funny she let go the accomplished attorney and account executive (probably because she “did ‘felt’ a little a awkward”) and kept the nice yet rough snowboarder who probably wouldn’t catch her grammar blunders… i mean the girl is an idiot she can’t even properly use grow, grew and growed in a sentence for crying out loud… i hope they break up soon cause i’ll be laughing at her so hard… and so will jason!!!
Vanessa | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
oh yeah and jason NOT Jeremy should be the next bachelor… Jeremy is boring… Jason is the whole package… i’d take him in a heartbeat!!!
Deb | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
If she chose Jesse then she wasn’t serious about a long lasting loving marriage with kids, etc…UNLESS…they are both in it for the money! He’s using it to become that sports agent (what experience does he have). She’s looking for a place on TV somewhere, magazine layouts, etc. Then the relationship will be over. I can’t believe she would lead Jason on for so long after she distinctly said she did not want to hurt Ty. My preferred was Jason, although most of what we saw was serious and not fun. I am so happy she didn’t pick the perfect guy, because her goal was not finding a husband but getting a job!
Pamela | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
I chose Jason, Jesse, and Graham from day one. I liked all three, but I personally would have chosen Jesse. There are an awful lot of shallow people on this site blasting him. GROW UP!!! NOT EVERY WOMAN LIKES PRETTYBOYS!!!
Debbe | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
Jason is great! I would like to see what they didn’t show us. She let the best go. Like she said when she let him go, “she is so stupid.” Instead of a professional who loves her, or a family man that claims to love her, she chooses one that says he thinks he is falling for her without a job or prospects for a job. Oh yeah, if he wins this, maybe a job comes with it! Nothing against Jesse, I’m sure he’sa nice guy…just too young and not prepared for a long-lasting relationship.
ceecee | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
I can’t believe she picks Jesse..OMYGOSH! I just knew it was gonna be Jason..
Deborah | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
My ’surprise’ ending would be to have Jeremy come back. Proclaim his love. At the ring ceremony she turns down both Jason/Ty and Jesse and announces she is marrying Jeremy
Debbe | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
Correction…my post said Jason is great…I meant to say Jeremy!
Tall Blonde | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
**YIPPEE**
SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO happy she picked Jesse!
Congrats from Atlanta !!!
Graham | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
Deanna tells me all the time she can’t wait to get rid of Jesse.
MsMolcajete | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
Hate to say it..but told you so!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Stormi | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
Deanna did Jason and Ty a favor by letting them go. They deserve a woman who will love and adore them. Deanna strikes me as a woman who likes the chase, Graham anyone? Problem is, once the chase is over the prey grows boring and the chaser is on to the next conquest. I got so tired of listening to her say, “I did not want to hurt them the way I was hurt by Brad.” It was always about how she was hurt by Brad, we GOT that Deanna. Knowing how people got hurt, having been there, I would have NEVER agreed to do the show. I could never have dismissed prospective suitors like they were yesterday’s fashion.
Tracy | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
I am so excited for them both! and i when i heard the date that they are getting married….it’s my birthday!! MAY 9TH!!
GOOD LUCK GUYS
Mary | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
Jason- He had me from the very first set.I cannot believe she chose Jesse. This girl does not know what she wants. Are you kidding me? Jesse’s going to father her kids? And what? Play Bozo the Clown, complete with the shoes? Give me a break. Jason has instilled my faith in good, honest, beautiful men. He will be just fine! Psst-Call me Jason!
Angela | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
We’ll, I think you and DeAnna just weren’t meant to be. Your a great guy and deserve to be really happy. Watching you on the show made me feel like a giddy school girl again. Thanks for that and best of luck to you. Mrs right is out there for you, and you’ll know it and feel it when you find her.
Jess | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
They look like they are in love…What was the big secret they had to tell on the last five minutes of the live after the rose ceremony show?
cma | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
I did feel DeAnna led Jason and Jeremy on, as she kept saying she was by Brad. I feel that she really was scared of the ones that loved her. She wanted to be in control. I am from Ga. also and was a little hurt that she was doing what she did. All in all though I hope they are happy for ever. Good Luck DeAnna and Jesse
jane | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
It was a sad day to see how deanna treated Jason, remember when her mother died, her father decided to get married again and she had to take on a step mom. I think if she didn’t wanted Jason she should have sent him home earlier on instead of keeping him there for so long, knowing that the man had his heart broken before, with her it was only a 6 weeks stint with Brad, but to have hurt someone like Jason who is kind and considerate doesn’t add up to you being a truthful person. I do hope it works out for you and Jesse but for me I don’t see a connection there and I am a pretty good judge of character.
Lori | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
I think Jesse is a sharp, unpretentious business man with a good heart. He is a professional athlete with endorsements, so I hate people dismissing him as a “dumb jock”. I thought she was insulting when she told him on the one-on-one date, “I never thought I would be interested in someone like you”. Extremely rude. I thought she was quite rude to several of the guys during the past few months.
And how about having an older bachelor/bachelorette, or a Latino, Asian or African-American bachelor/bachlorette?
Sarah Smith | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
what was the big secret they shared?!?!
Amy | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
People…give them a chance. They both seem very happy. There is alot more to Jesse than just a pro snowboarder. Google him and you’ll see there is alot more depth to him than what they portray on the show. He seems to be a really good guy who loves DeAnna let them be happy.. Time will tell if it isn’t going to work. Can’t we just give them a chance to see if it will..
Amy | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
What a stupid woman. Jesse is an immature CHILD and she could have had a REAL MAN. Deanna and Jesse will never last. Have your fun, because that is all that Jesse is. Fun and pointless.
JoAnne | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
I’m so mad at her. Leading Jason on knowing he had a son at home that he left to pursue her. If she really wasn’t attracted to him, why not let him go earlier and save him from the heartbreak. How could she do that to him. I just cried and felt so bad for him. He didn’t deserve to be treated that way. If I weren’t happily married I would have chosen Jason or Jeremy in a heartbeat. All I can say is good luck Jesse, you’ll probably be the next one she dumps. I don’t see her or Jesse lasting long.
LUCY | Jul 7, 2008 | Reply
THE SURPRISE WAS THAT THEY HAD SET A WEDDING DATE.
jenn | Jul 8, 2008 | Reply
I cant believe she didn’t pick Jason! He’s the perfect guy. If I wasn’t married already, I would drive to his house and propose! Kirkland is right down the road from me..why not!? Anyway, I dont see her and Jesse lasting long at all. He’s not stable enough for her, and in a few weeks the hype will all be over. Other than that, I wish all the best to Jason. He’s a great guy.
Amanda | Jul 8, 2008 | Reply
I think they will last a long time. He is so genuine and sweet and was so in love with her. Didn’t you see how nervous he was!?!? I love them. I think they are the next Trista and Ryan.
Lisa | Jul 8, 2008 | Reply
You people should all be ashamed of yourselves. Each man that participated on this show went in with their eyes WIDE open. This wasn’t the first or last seaon of the Bachelor/Bachelorette.
This slamming of Jesse is hateful and mean. Google this guy. He is a good person, with a good family and values - not a low life . How much charitable work are you all doing? Just because he doesn’t fit into the yuppie, , stereotype some of you possess doesn’t mean he isn’t sweet, genuine, fun, romantic, loving and talented. Jason has his qualities as well. He is a great guy, but he made the choice to go on the show and leave his son. Sounds like he has plenty of choices of women as printed here. Good luck Jason.
Get a life and judge ye not be judged yourself! Either choice would have been great - they are both nice men. Congrats DeAnna & Jesse!
laurie | Jul 8, 2008 | Reply
i’m excited for jesse and deanna; she said near the end that the person she thought she was and the man she thought she was looking for had changed throughout the course of the show; how wonderful for her to not only find her true self but the one person she wants to be with forever; i do wish them all the luck-i was pulling for him since their concert date; he seems like a man that will be by his girl to the end;
Neringa | Jul 10, 2008 | Reply
I am very happy for DeAnna and Jesse!They both seem very genuine and adventurous people.Good luck to you,guys!
Caimile | Jul 10, 2008 | Reply
I just watched the finale online. I could almost feel how hurt Jason was. I mean, I’m happy that she’s finally happy and it seemed like the underdog got the prize but STILL…it just seems so…WRONG!!! I love Jason. He’s so sweet and honest, he really loves her. I just hope that he finds true love and that some deserving woman out there can make him happy.
Cate | Jul 10, 2008 | Reply
I’m SO glad she chose Jesse!! They’re great together and close in age, as well.
I always wondered how Jason could have left his son to come on that show anyway. It’s his fault if he was away a long time, and his fault alone.
Sheesh. Women always blame the women, never the men. He’s a grown man and made that choice himself. She’s not responsible for his son. HE IS.
Good going Deanna. Great choice and wish you all the best. Always felt Jesse was more real anyway.
Cheers!!
redheadllena | Jul 10, 2008 | Reply
Thank you Lisa (above)!!! Exactly what I was thinking…
They were both great choices and I think it was a good sign that Jason and Jesse were the final two-they were the best two! Everyone who said she should have sent Jason home sooner, obviously you haven’t watched the Bachelorette before…Deanna was trying to figure out who was best for her and in the end wound up with two great choices! So therefore she did a good job narrowing things down. Jason deserved to be there till the end because he was a good guy.
I loved both guys but I really felt that Jesse was genuinely in love with her. He had never been there(in love) before, was way nervous about meeting her family and about proposing while Jason had been in love although he said it wasn’t the same. Jason had the graces with the family because of his previous experience but Jesse’s nervousness showed how much he truly cared.
I am so happy with Deanna and Jesse. Did you SEE them on the “After the Final Rose”? SO in love and adorable!!!
Jesse is to say the least a legit dude with great values, smart, caring and real. He waited to kiss her, and he really thought over a lot of his decisions having to do with Deanna in general. Plus he’s from CO… :)Obviously the Colorado men connection worked out for Trista and Ryan. If you watched closely every Monday you would have seen what a great guy Jesse is.
Best of Luck Deanna and Jesse. Glad you finally found happiness!!!
JustME | Jul 11, 2008 | Reply
All of you saying that they aren’t good together…seriously? Who the heck are you to judge, you’re not the ones that are there, feeling what they’re feeling. And the ones bashing looks? really? WHY? I mean yeah I would rather be with a hot jerk than an average sweetheart, wouldn’t you? NOT! And saying Jesse is unstable isn’t true either, and this is just kind of what I got from him, but I think he’d do ANYTHING to make DeAnna happy! If you paid close attention to every episode you would have noticed that Jesse was right there beside DeAnna ALL the time. When she played the trick on them and fell off the bull, who was there first? Watching the fireworks at the ball park who was beside her? And when she got upset at the guys bbq, did you see the look on Jesse’s face? He was so upset to see her upset, U could tell he just wanted to hold her! And one last thing about Jesse Whoever said that Jesse wasn’t ready for marriage, Did you listen to him when he said, “if you choose me I hope your ready for marriage because that’s where I am!” HELLO….I think he’s ready!
With Jason, yes he was an amazing guy and it killed me to see the finale b/c from the very first episode Jason, Jesse and Grahm were my favorites and once she got rid of Grahm I was happy because it just wasn’t working! Jason has great qualities but she just didn’t fall in love with him which sucks but you know he’ll find someone and pry be one of the next bachelors anyway!
Congrats to DeAnna and Jesse and lets just see if any of us and let them be a couple and see if it works out!
Paula | Jul 12, 2008 | Reply
To all those posting how ugly Jesse is, care to post your photo somewhere for everyone here to judge??? I bet NOT…
CONGRATS TO DE AND JESSE! GREAT COUPLE!!!
Dawn | Jul 13, 2008 | Reply
I feel by Deanna doing this to jason is no different than what Brad womack did to her,actually I feel what she did is worse becouse she did this not only to one but to his son. I absolutly adored Deanna until she did this ,thought she felt a 2ed chance on the show …everything..and it is not just becouse she didn’t choose the man I wanted..it is becouse she absolutly strung him along…had him get on his knee everyhting right up until the very end……it is so sad…..
Dawn | Jul 13, 2008 | Reply
correction..to my posting…I felt she actually deserved a 2ed chance on the show…..and NOW not anymore not at all
Tara | Jul 13, 2008 | Reply
I couldn’t have said it better my self. I have been happily married for five years to a man that continues to surprise me. I am a strong woman, and I needed a strong man that could make me laugh and help me back down. He makes her a better person, and they compliment each other. He has a good heart, has a good work ethic, and knows what is really important in life. I feel sorry for shallow people that think money and looks are top on any list. Jesse shines through as a sincere down to earth person that will always treat her right. He sees her for all that she is, and he is good with it. I see a happy ending in their future, just like Trista and Ryan. Shame on everyone for not wishing them the best and for criticizing his looks. It’s hard enough making a relationship work without petty comments coming from all directions.
sarah | Jul 13, 2008 | Reply
Every bachelor and bachelorette has to dunp some one in the end.
That is not Brad like, that is the show every season.
Brad dunped BOTH
That was what was weird. So no what Deanna did was NOT Brad like. Come on people. That is the nature of te show, the guys know this coming into it.you HAVE to have TWO runner ups.
sarah | Jul 13, 2008 | Reply
Everybachelor and bachelorette has to dump some one in the end.
That is not Brad like, that is the show every season.
Brad dumped BOTH
That was what was weird. So no what Deanna did was NOT Brad like. Come on people. That is the nature of te show, the guys know this coming into it.you HAVE to have TWO runner ups.
renelleryolanda | Jul 14, 2008 | Reply
deanna is a gorgous, sweet, caring person. At first I was rooting for Jason all the way too, but if she fell in love with Jesse so what. At the after the final rose ceremony she said she was in love and happy. I am happy for her. I wish her the best of luck in life and I hope she and Jesse turn out to be like Trista and Ryan.
JustME | Jul 15, 2008 | Reply
AGREED! Those of your judging any of these men by looks and money should be ashamed! That’s SO shallow! They are both amazing men on the inside and I think that’s all that matters! Good luck to DeAnna And Jesse!!!
Tracie | Jul 16, 2008 | Reply
Whats up with everyone saying she looked passed the looks? Now that Jesse has his hair under control, he is so hot. His personality makes him even better looking. She picked an awesome guy. Good Luck to them!!!!!!
Trish | Jul 16, 2008 | Reply
Jesse is SO right for DeAnna!
He was always there for her and doing what it takes to build a strong foundation for a relationship. He focused on being friends first. He was the first to rush to her aid when she was “fell” off the mechanical bull - he didn’t even hesitate for a second, he just DID it. He was always by her side when they were in a group setting and he waited for that first kiss instead of making sure he got one in in case he didn’t get a rose at the next ceremony. He focused first on her as a person and a friend.
Jesse didn’t grandstand and he wasn’t looking for a replacement to fill an emptiness or that “something” missing. Jason needed to prove to himself he could fall in love again. Jeremy held onto their “connection” like a drowning man grabs for a life preserver. I’m not saying what they felt for DeAnna wasn’t real to them, but neither of them had a solid foundation to build on. Jesse and DeAnna have that.
Speaking as a woman who married for all the wrong reasons and divorced; then later married her best friend for all the right ones; it’s easy to recognize that DeAnna and Jesse have what it takes to make it for the long haul.
DeAnna and Jesse - Opa!
JustME | Jul 17, 2008 | Reply
I agree with everything you said Trish!!!!
Pattie | Jul 19, 2008 | Reply
Congratulations!! I really would love to photograph your wedding. (Photos by P’Zazzzz) I watched the entire show.You got me, I just knew you were going to pick Jason. But, you followed what your heart told you to do!! It was so exciting to say ther least. Please post a schedule of Jessie’s snowboarding dates, then we all can watch and root him to victory!!
Rachael | Jul 22, 2008 | Reply
I completely agree with you. Most of the people who commented here did not do their homework. Jesse has more money than most of the guys that were on the show; he just didn’t talk about it. He does charity work. He’s the most real and kindhearted.
In my opinion, Jason was a good guy, but something about him didn’t seem real. I wasn’t completely certain he actually loved Deanna or just wanted to “fall in love again”(as he mentioned so often). Jesse, on the other hand, was totally enamored with her and you can tell he will do anything for her. He may actually have a better personality than she does.
Plus, maybe SHE thinks he’s cute.